Monday, 9 February 2015

First encounters in Plymouth - the natives are friendly

PLYMOUTH - THE NATIVES ARE FRIENDLY

But back to my search for the God of my youth in the churches of to-day.    Why can I not find the Christians to-day that I found in my youth.    Have I changed?    Of course,   I am not the wet behind the ears youth I was then but is that it?.  Has God changed?.    Is the message of the gospel different from what it was back then.    Or has the people changed?     I’m back in Plymouth,  so is it Plymouth.   Is it something in the water that we drink down here.

It wasn't when I first came here,   My early days in the Navy,  even later when I came back to work for Toshiba.     I first came to Plymouth in 1965 to do my basic training in HMS Raleigh.    6 weeks later I was off to Chatham to do my profession training as a Stores Accountant.    The first few weeks here I wasn't allowed out in case I ran back to mummy or those nasty ganners get you.    The last couple of weeks at Raleigh though we were let out at the weekends and I made my way to Plymouth Congress hall on a Sunday.    A couple of years later I returned to join HMS Salisbury and then came a posting to FMB (Fleet Maintenance Base) in the dockyard.     As I was here now for a while I started going to Devenport Morice Town Salvation Army.    There I was welcomed with open arms.     I told them I was a Salvationist and played in the band and no one questioned it or suggested I had to attend the meetings regularly for several months before being accepted or allowed to play in the band.    They maybe should have done as soon as they heard me play the baritone.   At least they had the sense to get me to play 2nd baritone.    Good job there wasn't music for 3rd or even 4th baritone.    There were 3 main families there at the time,  the Serles,  Ponesfords and Cliffs plus a number of others whose names now escape me.     Everyone was warm friendly and accepting.     Of course as a young man I threw myself with enthusiasm into everything that was happening and there was a lot happening.    Maybe that is the difference,  then a lot was happening and we were all encouraged to join in.    Now there seems little life to throw oneself into.    Most Saturdays the lads seemed to find something to do together and almost always ended up back at the Ponefords or Serles to watch Match of the Day.    Sundays likewise there were three meeting (Morning Holiness meeting,   Afternoon Praise meeting and then in the evening Salvation meeting) plus a couple of open airs thrown in.   After the evening meeting we would inevitably end up at the Ponefords or Serles for a bite to eat before going home,  me back to my ship.    I did though notice that on my second or third posting to the dockyard,  Sunday evenings suddenly had gone very quite.    Most if not all the gang were now married and some now had children,  so as soon as the evening meeting finished everyone rushed home to their beloved ones and I was left hanging around asking myself "Do I really want to go back to my ship this early in the evening."   Apart from that nothing changed and I as usual was taken back to someone’s home for lunch and again in the afternoon for tea.    Alas there was no bite to eat at the end of the day.   Was getting too fat anyway.

Then there was Weymouth.    Every Royal Navy ship after being ”re-commissioned” had to go to Portland for “Work-up”    Training and breaking in a new crew. This lasted for 6 weeks before it was deployed back into the Fleet.    Whenever I could whilst there I’d spend Sunday at the Salvation Army in Weymouth.    Being in the UK,  we never wore uniform when ashore on leave,  so people wouldn't have known,  apart of course from the hair cut and the swaying from side to side because the land wouldn't keep still.   Or was it because the land wouldn't keep moving up and down?    The first Sunday I went to Weymouth Corp,  the warmth and friendliness was overwhelming almost to embarrassment.   First the almost ubiquitous  question “Are you a Salvationist” followed as quickly if the answer was yes “Do you play in the band?”  Followed by "What instrument do you play" and before you knew it an instrument is thrust in your hands and you are sitting in the band.    They never asked me to sing though.    Funny that,  I can’t think why.    I wonder if had anything to do with when I opened my mouth.      One this occasion though not only did I get the usual questions,   everyone or at least it seemed everyone asked me back for lunch.    I had made a rule quite a while back, if asked I'd always accept the first person who asked and so I did.    A sweet little old lady maybe but she didn't look as if she had much going for her but it was kind of her, so I graciously accepted.    Then like I said,  it seemed as if everyone else either before or after the morning meeting also invited me.    I was sorely tempted to ungallantly find the old dear and make some excuse so that I could accept what looked much better offers.    I resisted the temptation and the day with her was much better than I could have imagined.

Similarly in Chatham,  like Plymouth there was also great hospitality and a keenness to draw me into whatever was happening at the Army there.    One little thing that always even now makes me smile.    At the youth club on a Friday night,  the leader was over 6 foot tall and just as broad.    The first time I saw him leave the club,  he had put on a great big leather jacket,  trousers boots, and gloves and carrying a large motor-bike helmet.    He must be a real hell’s angel I thought,  you don’t want to mess with him.   He then went round the corner mounted a small 50cc moped and drove off down the land like the reverse of a pea on a big bass drum.      Then there was Dundee.    By this time I was married and hospitality ceased.   People those days expected your wife to feed you.    But again the are you a Salvationist?  Can you play an instrument?   Good, you are in the band.   This time though they needed a band sergeant .   A person who led the devotionals at the end of the practice and who looked after the spiritual and pastoral needs of the band members.   Would you like to take the job on.    Errrrr.   I've only just arrived and anyway I’ll be off again in a year or so.    "So.   What’s that got to do with it.   Will you take the job on or not?"    So I did,  for 10 months until the Navy posted me back to Plymouth.    I wonder what it would have been like if the church then was like it is to-day.    Come and sit in the congregation for 6 or 9 months and show you are committed to us.    You are reliable,  respectable and good character etc.   I never was based anywhere in the Navy for more than 18 months before Drafty sent me somewhere else.   Nowadays I would hardly have got my feet under the table before I was having to think of moving on.   Sorry guys I know I've now proved I am reliable etc but I’ll be moving on in a couple of months now.


Oh by the way,   it turned out I wasn't a Salvationist after all.   Shortly after I left Worksop to join the Navy,   someone thought it was a good idea to cancel my membership and took me off the role.    Didn’t find out until someone had the bright idea of transferring my membership from Worksop to Devonport .  But that’s another story in my quest to find out the difference between then and now.

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